Married but Separated
by Joyce
(Port Orchard, WA)
I met a guy, he’s been married but separated for about a year, his future ex wife is very hurtful toward him, anyway, we hit it off right away, we spent almost all of our time together, it wasn’t sexual, but, we would sleep together (just sleep, except for twice).
We saw each other every day for two months (he was on unemployment benefits). Then, he got a new job, and from that day on, he completely stopped calling me, or contacting me altogether. I don’t know what to think. I really like this guy, and I thought he really liked me. What should I do?
Our Relationship Advice to You
Scary…
You need to realize this guy has a house full of garbage he needs to get rid of before he can make some room for you.
Gracefully back out of his life and give him some time to get his ducks in a row. That way he can come back to you with a clean slate and a fresh start that you both deserve.