How Interested in Me is He?
by Ashley
(Toronto, ON)
I met this guy about a month ago at a high-end lounge. I was not looking for anything at the time, and given the way we met, I figured – what’s the harm? So we had a ONS. A week later, we hung out – this time, involving dinner and he picked me up from my place.
After that came two weeks of not hearing from him. Then he texted me at 11pm. I figured it was a booty call but he didn’t take the chance when he had the opportunity.
Another two weeks before we were both available to meet again. This time – like the last – he texted me exactly an hour before we were supposed to meet about grabbing food. This time, there was a lot of cuddling. We even had pillow fights! I did give him a chance to stop the cuddling if he wanted to, but instead he simply said “no it’s ok” and continued cuddling.
He also told me about his family, how he got his dog (whom I love) and that he is signing a lease to buy a new condo instead of buying a new car.
He said that he was feeling cold, so we stayed really close and fell asleep. Next morning, he asked me if I slept ok and told me that he slept great, even though he usually don’t sleep well when sleeping next to someone.
Two days after that, I texted him since I was feeling restless. Sadly, he wasn’t free to dirty text me, though he was replying to my texts quite quickly. I also noticed that he started ending his texts with ‘hun’. Perhaps he forgot my name? – although i remember typing my name into his phone when he asked for my number.
He is going on vacation with his buddies next week, so we won’t be meeting up till two weeks from now.
We never talked on the phone, although in person there was never any awkwardness. He also hibernated on me for two weeks before, and the two times we hung out, he always ended our goodbye by saying something vague i.e. “I’ll see you later” or “we’ll talk soon”
I am curious – I am wondering, how interested in me is he? Is he perhaps seeing other women or generally busy?
I know people always say not to put all the eggs in one basket. But I am finishing up my university degree, so my schedule is pretty tight. Hence, do not have time to juggle men.