The Final Breakup
by Vesper, 14
(England)
I know this might sound ridiculous.
I’m 14 and from England. me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago and I’m still in bits
we were so close, we had so many memories, i loved him soo much, i would die for him. we broke up a couple of times in the past but he would come running back to me. so this time i thought he would. but he still hasn’t.
what happened: one day he went to Cadets and didn’t say bye or anything, then i got these texts after he finished saying ‘suck me baby’ so i texted back saying “who is this.” he didn’t text back so i was getting a bit worried. so i bbm’ed his best friend saying “where’s sam(my ex)” and he bbm’ed back saying he’s cheating on me with this girl that i hated, and then he told me to look at my wall on facebook. he posted a picture up of sam and this girl pretending to have sex.
Because of what i heard i was scared, so i had a go at sam and the next day he texted me saying “we’re over and this is the last time I’m breaking up with you.” i was heartbroken and still am.
now we’re not talking and he hates me and has another girlfriend. all his friends text me saying ha HATES you and is NEVER going to get back with you. because he came back before i still have hope. i just hope one day that he finds out what he’s missing. thanks 🙂
any help in the meantime?
Our Dating Advice to You
Sucks Being 14
I’m not about to tell you anything you really want to hear…
When a dude is 14, he’s about as distractable as humans can possibly be. I was a cruel monster at that age and although I had some pretty deep relationships, as soon as the next interesting thing happened, I was out of there. I still feel a little guilt for the way I ended some of those relationships (sorry Nancy!). But at the time, I didn’t care and thought I was cool for being such an ass.
Girls mature way faster than guys and in no other situation can this be proven over and over again.
I’m not sure you can ever have another chance to be with Sam since his friends are already involved and he won’t want to look like a wimp to them by taking you back.
Right now, you should focus on healing after a heartbreak and think of ways to grow from this turmoil.
It sounds like you have a pretty good head on your shoulders so don’t do anything that looks like a step backward.
Take some time to rediscover yourself and good Luck!