Sneaky Bastard
by Onzyno
(Wisconsin, USA)
He started talking and chatting with this girl who he claims is just an old friend. He usually sends flirty texts and she always sends back. He told me that he never took interest on her but i know that he’s lying. He always calls her. They talk few times a week, for hours.
When i’m with him, he never calls or mentions about her. But one time, i caught her calling him on Skype and i got angry. I told my boyfriend to stop talking to her, and we almost reached a breakup point. He swore that he’ll never talk to her again because he doesn’t want to end our relationship because of her.
I trusted him. I gave him another shot. But, I found that he was still in touch with her, talking and chatting again. I found this very offensive and hurtful. The mean thing i’m so upset is he told her that he’s not that into me, he wanted a breakup, he doesn’t like me that much or he thinks i’m naggy person. Is it even acceptable?! That son of a b–ch.
Our Infidelity Advice to You
Look inside and decide
If you really believe that he is still talking to his “friend” and it makes you uncomfortable the try to sit down and have a calm conversation with him. It seems that as a human, when we are told we “can’t” do something, then we do it to prove a point.
If you believe that what you’ve heard about the things he’s told his “friend” then you really need to look at the situation clearly. Do you want to be with someone who will tell another they don’t really care for you? Why is he going behind your back and talking to her? Why is he talking to her daily? These are all answers that your heart knows. But it’s something you have to look into and investigate – feel your feelings and what you want out of a relationship and then ask yourself is this it? Remember, there are many other men out there!
Crystal