Seducing The ONE
(Upstate, New York)
Well, like lots of women, I have had a dream guy in mind for years. Tall, blond, blue eyes, and adventurous, to name a few items on my list. I live in a rural area where it is hard to meet new people. This led me to try online dating sites.
At first I was a little hesitant to go out with anyone, not sure what to expect. Eventually I started going on some dates. They were all bombs. It would be so hard to sit through dates with guys that I just wasn’t into.
I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt, but it usually turned out to be a dud before the first date was even over. I probably went on about 20 dates with different guys, and then… I found him. The guy of my dreams pulls up in his car, and I was speechless.
He was everything that I want in someone, smart, funny, and unbelievably handsome. I pulled out all the subtle tricks I know. I made prolonged eye contact, even when it felt so intense I thought I would melt. I mirrored his body language.
We made jokes and had great conversation. He seemed interested, but unsure if he should make a move. When he mentioned his “messy” hair, I took the opportunity to touch it and say how great it looked and how hot curly hair is. When he made a playfully mean joke I lightly punched his arm and sauntered away with my sexiest walk to the ladies room.
By the end of the date he was right where I wanted him, but he thought that he had done it all. So when he went in for the kiss it was a no-brainer.
I have had some experience being a “booty call” in the past. So when he tried to have things go further than our intense kissing make out session, I pulled together all my willpower and said that I had to get going, because I had plans to meet friends later. I actually had no such plans, but it worked. He called me the next day and asked me when we could meet again.
I am so glad I found this site because it has helped me to identify where I should go from here. He is a definite keeper, so the game of seduction continues…