Our Love and the Whole World Against Us

by Blanca, 24
(Minnessota)

I am 24yrs old. My uncle is 26yrs old and we started dating since I was 14yrs old.

When he moved to a different state, we broke up. After he left, we still talked to each other but little by little we stopped talking to each other.

After few years, I went to visit him to discover he had a girlfriend and a baby. I realized everything was over and I started dating someone when I went back home. I got pregnant lived with my boyfriend for 5yrs. But our relationship was not great.

One day I decided to visit my family where my uncle was. The first day I saw him he said hi and hugged me . A lot of feelings came back. Then I saw that he was having a lot of problems with his now wife. She kicked him out of the house so he moved to my grandma’s house were I was I decided to not go back home. We talked. Feelings were still there. We kissed and started dating again.

Nobody knew.

After a while, we had our first night together and we slept together. One day, grandma said, “Let’s get a bigger apartment.” So we did and me and him shared a room with my baby. His brother is in jail so someone that knew my uncle and somehow knew me, ended up in jail at the same place were my other uncle is. He mention that me and my uncle were dating. Now everybody knows my grandma made us say the truth. She was crying. My grandpa was mad. They said for us to decide what to do and let them know.

We still sleep in the same room but the problem is that my uncle in jail is tired of the guy telling him a lot of things so they are setting up a fight. If that happens, they will move him to another facility were my grandma won’t see him and he will do more time. He said it is our fault.

My uncle and I talk about it but we always end up saying that we can’t be away from each other. We did for so many years and our feelings were still there so now we don’t want to be apart.

Please somebody, tell me what to do! We need help! Our kids, family, and everybody is in the middle. People say we are being selfish and only caring for us and not our kids (he has two kids).

His ex-wife wants him back but he doesn’t want to. We all live in the same building. We need some advice from someone and I’ve always loved this site. Thank you.

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